In love and staying in love

What do you think is a question that brings a million smile and gallon of tears from someone? It's not money, of course. Oh yes you are right, it's love. It's so nice to ask someone if he or she is in love and if they are, you will see it through their eyes. Shining like a gem that you thought will never fade.

How do you know when you are in love? In this point in time, specially for the young ones it is so easy for them to say that they are in love. When ever they saw their crush passing by, they will immediately say that they are in love. And that is their perspective.

Have we ever thought the true meaning of love. They say love has no faces but you can feel it running from deep within. And it symbolizes the story of Cupid and Psyche. On how Cupid were able to hide his true appearance and how Psyche was so contented on the feeling itself without seeing the physical appearance of her lover. But gone are the days that people see it that way.

By now, when you ask someone why he or she love with that person. You will hear their litany of good things, traits and how handsome or beautiful that person is. And you will not be able to hear anything bad. Hmmm! Seems like a perfect man/girl already. As time passes by the hidden character slowly removing it's cover. The real color started to show up. By then, the person who says good things about their lover will now have a new list, of all bad things over a bottle of beer or a tons of tears.

Is this how love is? Is it really temporary?? Or is it the people involve???

Have you ever look closely to the face of a person in love. It's beaming, glowing and they are so energetic. Seems that nothing can ruin there day.
     
What about the person who falls out of love?? Ah, it's so ugly, so negative and seems to carry the whole world on their shoulder.
     
What about a person who remain in love after many years of being together. They have two faces. Sometime sad but most of the time happy.

You maybe wondering if I am just trying to confused you. But it's a no  no. They really are two different things, being in love and staying in love.

What is the difference???

It's a nature of human to feel love, to be in love but not all of us are lucky enough to stay in love.

And how do they differ??? Is it base on how we look at love???

Being in love is seeing good things, traits and physical appearance towards your partner and loving it. Staying in love is seeing the good things and loving it and seeing the bad things and still loving it as well.

Two side of a different story but same topic. And clearly define. I just hope that all people who fell in love will remain in love with the same person or partner. But then again, change is always present. And we will never know what it can bring.